As a child, my mother taught me a valuable lesson that has stayed with me to this day. She gave me a special code word to use in case I ever found myself in a situation where I felt uncomfortable or threatened. This secret word was like a hidden message that only she would understand, and it gave me a sense of security and reassurance.
When I became a mother myself, I decided to pass on this valuable lesson to my own daughter, Amy. I taught her the same code word, hoping that she would never need to use it, but also knowing that it could be a lifesaver in a difficult situation.
Recently, I received a call from my ex-husband, Dave, who was watching Amy for the weekend. He seemed hesitant and nervous, which immediately raised my suspicions. When Amy got on the phone, she sounded cheerful, but I could sense that something was off.
She began telling me about her day, but then she mentioned something that caught my attention. She said she wished she had a blue marker to draw blueberries. That’s when it hit me – blueberries was our code word.
I immediately knew that Amy was trying to send me a message, and my heart started racing. I remained calm and asked her a few more questions, trying to get more information without arousing suspicion.
As I listened to Amy’s responses, I realized that she was in a situation where she felt uncomfortable and scared. I quickly sprang into action, making arrangements to pick her up as soon as possible.
When I arrived at Dave’s house, I could sense the tension in the air. Amy was relieved to see me, and we quickly left the house, leaving Dave and his uneasy atmosphere behind.
As we drove away, Amy broke down in tears, telling me about the uncomfortable situation she had been in. I listened attentively, trying to reassure her that she was safe and that I was there to protect her.
The code word had worked, and I was grateful that I had taught it to Amy. It had given her a way to communicate with me in a difficult situation, and it had ultimately led to her safety.
As a mother, it’s natural to worry about your child’s safety and well-being. But this experience taught me that even in the most difficult situations, there is always hope. And sometimes, all it takes is a simple code word to make all the difference.
