A woman’s 13-year marriage was turned upside down when her husband suddenly demanded a separation and insisted that she move across the country with him. But what he didn’t know was that his wife had discovered a secret that would change everything.
The husband’s frustration with his job and desire for a fresh start seemed reasonable, but his suggestion of a separation came out of nowhere. His wife was shocked and hurt by his harsh words, which seemed unfounded and extreme.
As the days went by, the wife discovered that her husband had been in constant communication with an old friend, a recently divorced woman who was helping him secure a new job. The intensity of their interaction was staggering, with over 500 texts a day. The wife’s suspicions were aroused, and she began to question her husband’s true intentions.
The husband’s plan was to relocate the entire family, including their two young children, his mother, and his wife, to a new state. But the wife was not willing to uproot her life and leave behind her job, friends, and community. She felt that her husband was being selfish and inconsiderate, and that his demands were unreasonable.
When the husband traveled to the potential job location for an interview, his wife discovered evidence that suggested he was planning to engage in a physical relationship with his old friend. She felt betrayed and hurt, and her trust in her husband was broken.
The situation came to a head when the husband returned home and admitted that he had been unhappy in their marriage for 15 years. His wife was shocked and felt that she was being blamed for his unhappiness. She began to question whether she was at fault for considering divorce and seeking physical custody of their children.
The online community rallied around the wife, offering support and insights into the situation. Many people deemed her “NTA” (not the asshole) for her actions and decisions, and encouraged her to stand up for herself and her children. The wife’s story serves as a reminder that marriage is a two-way street, and that both partners must work together to build a strong and healthy relationship.
