After years of dedicating myself to my career, I finally decided it was time to put myself out there and start dating again. A friend, eager to play matchmaker, introduced me to Alex, a charming and successful architect who seemed like the perfect catch. Our first date was set at his favorite childhood restaurant, and I was excited to get to know him better.
As we sat down for dinner, the conversation flowed effortlessly, and I found myself laughing and feeling at ease in his presence. However, things took a drastic turn when the check arrived. The bill was staggering – $400 for a single meal. Despite my offer to split the cost, Alex insisted on paying, which I appreciated.
But what happened next left me speechless. As we were finishing up, Alex casually suggested that I use my savings to get breast surgery. I was taken aback by his audacity and felt a wave of anger wash over me. How could someone I had just met, and was supposedly interested in getting to know better, make such a thoughtless and insensitive comment?
I composed myself and responded, highlighting the inappropriateness of his remark and suggesting that he might benefit from a “brain-increasing” procedure. I then got up, left $200 on the table, and walked out of the restaurant.
It wasn’t until later that I discovered the full extent of Alex’s true nature. The waiter, it turned out, had connections to the restaurant chain, and Alex’s behavior had earned him a ban from all their locations. His attempts to justify his comment and even get me fired revealed a mean-spirited and vindictive personality.
The experience was a harsh reminder of the importance of standing up for oneself and not tolerating disrespect. While the date was a disaster, it taught me a valuable lesson, and I remain open to meeting new people and forming meaningful connections. Not all men are like Alex, and I’m grateful for that.
